feat(query): better alias tracker

[discord9]

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What's changed and what's your intention?

many query push down cases need correct alias tracking:

• partition columns need proper alias track(already covered)
• merge sort's sort expression
• column requirement enforce
• subquery alias

added two methods which be able to query for aliased column's original column(at given grand child of plan) and old columns' aliased column at current level etc. which is useful for all sort of case where need to track if a column exist in current node

since point 2-4 still need more testing, will do it in next PR
for better reviewibility, but the idea is clear, and both query method(bottom-up/up-bottom) is needed and tested

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Please convert it to a draft if some of the following conditions are not met.

• I have written the necessary rustdoc comments.
• I have added the necessary unit tests and integration tests.
• This PR requires documentation updates.
• API changes are backward compatible.
• Schema or data changes are backward compatible.

[evenyag]

Trust the test......

[fengjiachun]

LGTM