dns: restore dns query cache ttl

[Ethan-Arrowood]

Fixes: #57636

When c-ares was updated the default caching behavior changed.

As of c-ares 1.31.0, the query cache is enabled by default with a TTL of 1hr. To disable the query cache, specify this option with a TTL of 0. The query cache is based on the returned TTL in the DNS message.

This PR restores the caching behavior by setting qcache_max_ttl to 0.

This change in c-ares is reasonable; thus, as a follow up to this fix, we should implement a cache management API for DNS queries and then re-enable the new default cache value. Tracking issue for follow up work: #57641

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[mcollina]

lgtm

Can you open the follow-up issue to track that work?

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Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 90.22%. Comparing base (1123585) to head (61f93c1).
Report is 77 commits behind head on main.

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